Bobb,

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Losing a family pet can be a very traumatic event.

Many years ago, when I was a young child in fact, our pet dog Snoopy killed our pet cat Rastass after living happily with him for five years.

Dogs are territorial creatures and will defend their territory. Bear this in mind before you make a decision about Lucy. You may want to let some time pass so that your emotions aren't as raw when you make your decision.

In our case we decided that Snoopy just couldn't be trusted to live with another cat. We kept Snoopy who lived to a ripe old age as a much-loved family pet, albeit one that couldn't be trusted to live happily with a cat.

Bobb,

The only consolation that I can offer is that Dilbey is in a far better place.

Dealing with dogs with behavioral problems is difficult, but there are people out there who love to do this.

Before you put Lucy down, please check into some local rescue groups.  Be sure to be toally honest about her problems.  Someone out there will want to take her and work with her to overcome her issues, if possible.  If not, having her in the correct environment can help prevent a future tragedy.

Just think about it, before you make a final decison.

I am in agreement with all -- what a tragic way to see in a new year. Do what you need to do to find peace.

Bobb,

I am so sorry to hear about Dibley's death; I can't imagine losing a beloved pet that way. I also feel bad for Lucy; to be so afraid and lash out like that. The whole tragic incident just breaks my heart. I can not imagine what you and your family are going through.

Kathy

While nothing can change what has happened and no amount of sympathy can lessen the blow, you have my sympathies and my wishes for a brighter 2008. And because I'm a helpless animal lover, too:

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Bobb,, My thoughts are of your beloved Pet as well tonight..
Here you might find some solace in this poem from Rainbow Bridge Website..

For everyone with a dog (or three), or who likes dogs, or who just need a smile about the joys of dogs, or simply growing up, I offer a small change of disposition... a series of photos of a dog and two puppies:

It would seem misfortune doesn't travel by itself. Losing your mother is like losing your roots. Please accept my sincere condolences.